No more children for us. Why?

No more children for us! Why?


We have decided that we are happy with the two we have, We are living comfortable as a family of 4. I want to be able to enjoy every moment that the boys share with us. To be quite honest I don’t think I have the patience for anymore! I salute all the sane mothers out there I really do.


I don’t want to be in a position where we struggle to fulfil the needs of what a child needs if we had anymore. I just think before having more children all aspects should be covered. I could give them all the love in the world but it would mean putting our self in financial difficulty. That is definitely not what a child needs. After all they don’t come cheap!

Some people dream of having a big family which is great but we aren’t all the same, Some want none which is also fine & Here is me just wanting 2. Why is it so hard to understand that? Growing up I didn’t want any at all, Oh how that changed. I am 1 of 4 & Hubby is 1 of 7. Just because our mothers had more than us it doesn’t mean we have to match them.

We are very grateful for the 2 we have & We’re happy so what does it matter? Why does it matter so much to other people anyway? If we want another child we will, Not when people tell us. Apparently we need to now because Oscars in nursery & Will soon be starting school. This mama is going to enjoy her free time like never before. Probably just catching up on sleep like.

So.. Yeah, Give it up asking! It’s not going to happen.



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